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Lately a lot of guys i have matched with will ask to meet up for a beer or coffee within like 3-5 messages.

I tell them, that I want to get a better feeling of them before saying yes. Their response is either like "well ask me anything" (I hate this, like they are not courious about knowing me at all, they just want me intervieing them untill I aprove them) or they well say that its easyer to see if you click in real life and they prefer to meet up fast over texting.

I understand the whole "i dont want a penpall, lets meet up and see if we click thing". But, I want to get a feeling of the person before saying yes to a date. I only have so much free time, I can't say yes to everyone who ask for a date. Recently when I was unemployed I had so much time, so I said yes more often, but now i am back to work and I find dating mentally exhausting. I have no thrill or excitement about it to be honest.

Am i beeing unreasnable? Am I sorting out the more intentional ones, who dont like texting? How long do you text before bringing up meeting?